Originally, decorating new house is a joyful thing. But couples may have conflicts because of this. Is there any similar cases happened to your surroundings? Melody Home collects some cases for you and the new couples. Hope you can learn how to avoid the conflicts in home decorating.
Problem one, it is none of my business and l do not need to worry about it
One net friend (girl): at the beginning of the decorating, he said little about the decorating and everything pushes to me. Even went to the decorating site, he seemed that nothing he cared about. For materials, l shopped around first and asked him to see it. l wanted to discuss any decorating problem with him. But he forgot it after a while l had told him. He never put it in mind. We got married for eleven years, if keeping on decorating, we may get a divorce.
Ways to solve it
As to the problem, the husband give the right to his wife is a right decision. But he has to show care for the decorating. Decorating is an energy wasting thing. It can lighten the burden for the other if the two of them can share the responsibility together.
Problem two, both of us want to make the decision, causing the disagreeing.
This is a common phenomenon. The different aesthetic concept and favors cause the disagreeing in decorating styles, buying furniture as well as color collocation. If both of the couple do not take a step back, the result is obvious.
Ways to solve to
Before decorating, you had better decide who to make the decision. Every man has his own idea. If wanting to decide the final choice, you have to decide a decision maker. Otherwise, you will go into endless quarrel.
Problem three, go with the designer
When decorating, if the conflicts happened but no ways to solve it, at this time, the designer is easy to get in. if the designer is handsome and understand the aesthetic concept and favors, the wife may go with the designer.
Ways to solve it
Arrange the time according to the work time and rational division of work. Both of the couple should adjust their attitude. After all, the decorating is for a better future. If the husband is comparatively busy, the wife should try to show understanding for him and undertaken the main responsibility.
At last, Melody Home gives every body some advice
- Put the decorating ahead of the marriage so the divorce would not come.
- If no excuses for divorce, you may try home decorating.